A Reflection on SlutWalk Manchester 2011
By Greta
Friedlander
The
most amazing thing I did during my gap year (also the year I discovered
feminism) was being a part of the team that organised Manchester SlutWalk. It
was the first time I had seen a feminist cause gaining mainstream media attention.
The first time I had seen thousands of people turn out for a march on a
feminist issue. The day of the march was the busiest of my life, doing three
television interviews, countless radio slots and simultaneously trying to work
out how to safely get over a thousand people round three miles of busy traffic.
The reception of the march was so overwhelmingly positive that the roads and
even tram lines were peacefully cleared ahead of us, despite our decision not
to let the authorities dictate our route.
The
SlutWalk campaign was sparked by a comment by a policeman in Toronto. Whilst
addressing a group of university students, he suggested that the girls should
avoid dressing like sluts if they wished to avoid being raped. Angry at the
insinuation that a survivor is to blame if they are raped, the students held
the first ever SlutWalk. The key message of the movement is that sexual assault
is always the fault of the person who assaults, not the person who is
assaulted.
This
may not seem like a controversial statement but it is at odds with a lot of the
messages that we are sent by society. We warn women against getting drunk,
wearing provocative clothing or going out at night. If they engage in these
behaviours and get raped, well they should have been more careful. This is
wrong for several reasons. Firstly, if a woman engages in these behaviours and
then is assaulted, she is likely to suffer guilt and blame herself. More
importantly the police will blame her too. Survivors are routinely asked what
they were wearing at the time they were assaulted. The police must think that
some answers to this question would change the magnitude of the crime,
otherwise the question would be irrelevant. In their eyes, a woman who was
wearing a short skirt and walking home alone at night must have been asking for
it.
Another
problem with issuing such warnings is that they do not reflect the reality of
the prevalence of sexual assault in our society. They perpetuate the stereotype
of a woman being pulled off the street and raped in a public place. The
overwhelming majority of sexual assault takes place within the home and the
most women who are assaulted will already know their attacker. Offering
warnings about not going out in a short skirt does nothing to help these women.
It makes women who are sexually assaulted under the most common circumstances,
by their partner, in their home, doubt if their case was 'real rape'. It also
takes no account of the fact that women are not the only people who experience
sexual assault.
There
are powerful weapons we have in the fight against sexual assault. One of the
most powerful is education. We need to spread ideas about the importance of
active consent. In a society that takes the absence of a 'no' as a 'yes', we
run the risk that there may be a grey area in-between sex and sexual assault.
We need to teach that it is never acceptable to have sex without active
consent. Rape is rape even if you were drunk, even if you kissed him, even if
you are a sex worker, even if he was your husband. This is the message of the
SlutWalk movement, and it is a good one.
There
are valid criticisms that can be made about the way this message was presented.
The inclusion of the word slut means that the movement has alienated many
people. It's a loaded term. It is used as an abusive label, a way to control
women's sexual behaviour. It may be triggering for people who have experienced
sexual assault and therefore may alienate the very people we are trying to
speak up for. It is also a reflection of the way the movement started. It was
started by white, middle class students. Slut does not resonate the same for
everyone, across different races and classes. The women who started the
movement were coming from a position of privilege. They could throw on and off
the term slut in a way that less privileged people are less able to do. I was
free to reclaim the word slut for myself, to go out and march in my underwear,
and then to return home and slip back into respectability. This is not the case
for everyone. This movement is one that is predominately white, predominately
middle class, predominately heterosexual.
We
planned SlutWalk Manchester despite these reservations. We felt that the
empowerment of reclaiming a word that is used to control, coupled with the advantages
of sticking with the brand of the movement, were important reasons to go on.
The power of seeing marches of the same name going on in numerous cities all
around the world should not be overlooked. We also took measures to try and
ensure that even people who disagreed with reclaiming the word slut felt able
to come. In all the promotional material for the march, as well as on the chant
sheets that we handed out on the day, was a message of awareness about the
problematic nature of the term slut. We encouraged marchers to call themselves
sluts if they felt it empowered them, but not to label others as sluts without
their consent.
In
the case of SlutWalk Manchester we were fairly successful in making our march
more inclusive than others had been. There was particularly high representation
of the LGBT community. There was a huge turn-out of people in drag on the
march, which I was very happy to see. It reflected the fact that trans and
gender variant people have an appallingly high chance of being sexually
assaulted, and countered the idea of SlutWalk being a movement only for
straight women.
I am
proud of the SlutWalk movement. It has raised the profile of the ongoing
feminist campaign against sexual assault and victim blaming. Because SlutWalk
has elements that alienate some feminists, it must always be only part of the
campaign. We need a range of protests, marches and campaigns to fight sexual
assault. It is a vast and ancient problem that cannot be solved in a single
year by a single campaign. I hope that the success of SlutWalk Manchester was a
sign of things to come.
Greta is a first year history student from
Manchester. She is a part of Feminist Action Manchester which organised
SlutWalk Manchester and the DIY Feminist Festival taking place in September.
She is also starting a new group that will run workshops on advertising and
body image in local schools. Apart from feminism she likes cats, Radio 4 and
vegan food. Contact her
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